While I Am Concerned About The Fact You Have Been Forced Into This Situation My Honest Opinion Is That If You Are Asking If It Is Alright To Be Friends With Someone You Are Most Likely Already Friends Just Verbally Confirming The Fact Which Is Admittedly Comforting To Some Parties But Im Going To Tentatively Put Forth That The Scenario Is The True Source Of Concern Here Admittedly The First Conclusion I Jumped Toward Is This Having To Do With You Worrying About Your Luck Affecting This Person In Which Case I Think That While Your Concern Is Valid If Nothing Has Happened Yet Then I Doubt It Will Soon If You Are On The Friendship Level Already Otherwise I Am Afraid That I May Require More Information On The Scenario To Give An Informed Opinion
I'm not quite sure. Though, he was always the only one to really talk to me, and even now he has been nice, I'm not really sure how much I can ask for. He did tell me I was one of them recently though, and that he relies on me. But there's definitely an obligation involved. Also, I feel the person he's really thinking about, especially relying on is someone I'm not yet, and that feels a bit frustrating. I mean... before he dissappeared I know he was still scared of me, and worried. I think he's just better at hiding it now.
Also, I've already said something in the past that was misleading and it makes the request a little more complicated.
I See Trust Me When I Say That I Understand How Someone Who Is At A Different Point In A Timeline Are Frustrating To Converse With Ive Done It Far Too Many Times Before
It Is True That You Have Likely Complicated Things With Whatever You Said But That Can Be Remedied By Clarifying This Particular Statement Youve Made In The Past
[This statement is a lot bigger then you are guessing it to be Kanaya.]
I don't know how I feel about clarifying it. I feel like if I did I might push him away more, and if I don't, then, it's something that can just be left as is and it would be fine. I mean, what I want to do is to make it so we have a connection, because I feel a strong connection and would like to give it a proper name. But, I don't think I should actually give a confession because that's just too much.
[He could tell she wasn't afraid of him, which is why he felt close to her.]
I know, or at least I assumed. And I thank you for it.
Ah So It Is One Of Those Situations I Can Relate With That
[From Vriska... and ironically enough right now. Haha ha... why her. Stupid pale feelings being hit right on the head.]
Perhaps You Should Take Your Time To Ease Him Into The Idea Ask The Question When You Think That He Is At A Point Where It Is Unlikely To Drive Him Off If Things Go Southward
[Kanaya's fingers hover over the keys for a moment before pressing down to delete her unsent offer of wing-manning. That was far too pale a gesture. Time to change the subject.]
I'm a bit unsure at parties, though, being at the sleepover seemed safe enough.
[He also didn't really know what to do at them. At least a sleep over was mostly about sleeping.]
As for waiting for the opportune moment, I'm not sure I would know when that is. Maybe instead of waiting for a moment when it might be most agreeable, creating a situation of the right mood would be a better plan. That's easier to do, and you just have to recreate scenarios, right?
[...okay the urge to meddle is overpowering the desire to not add another blatant pale gesture to the pile while he is still unaware. She is so weak to problems.] I Can Assist In Creating This Hypothetical Scenario If You Will Allow Me To Do So
While I Am Not Experienced In The Art Of Wingmanship I Can At The Very Least Attempt To Provide Emotional Support/span>
[....And there goes another moment to add to the list of times she's accidentally pale flirted with him.]
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Date: 2016-10-17 10:42 pm (UTC)My Honest Opinion Is That If You Are Asking If It Is Alright To Be Friends With Someone
You Are Most Likely Already Friends
Just Verbally Confirming The Fact
Which Is Admittedly Comforting To Some Parties
But Im Going To Tentatively Put Forth That The Scenario Is The True Source Of Concern Here
Admittedly The First Conclusion I Jumped Toward Is This Having To Do With You Worrying About Your Luck Affecting This Person
In Which Case I Think That While Your Concern Is Valid
If Nothing Has Happened Yet
Then I Doubt It Will Soon
If You Are On The Friendship Level Already
Otherwise I Am Afraid That I May Require More Information On The Scenario To Give An Informed Opinion
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Date: 2016-10-17 10:52 pm (UTC)Also, I've already said something in the past that was misleading and it makes the request a little more complicated.
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Date: 2016-10-19 01:05 am (UTC)Trust Me When I Say That I Understand How Someone Who Is At A Different Point In A Timeline Are Frustrating To Converse With
Ive Done It Far Too Many Times Before
It Is True That You Have Likely Complicated Things With Whatever You Said
But That Can Be Remedied By Clarifying This Particular Statement Youve Made In The Past
[This statement is a lot bigger then you are guessing it to be Kanaya.]
If It Is Any Consolation I Am Not Afraid Of You
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Date: 2016-10-19 01:23 am (UTC)[He could tell she wasn't afraid of him, which is why he felt close to her.]
I know, or at least I assumed. And I thank you for it.
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Date: 2016-10-20 12:40 am (UTC)So It Is One Of Those Situations
I Can Relate With That
[From Vriska... and ironically enough right now. Haha ha... why her. Stupid pale feelings being hit right on the head.]
Perhaps You Should Take Your Time To Ease Him Into The Idea
Ask The Question When You Think That He Is At A Point Where It Is Unlikely To Drive Him Off If Things Go Southward
[Kanaya's fingers hover over the keys for a moment before pressing down to delete her unsent offer of wing-manning. That was far too pale a gesture. Time to change the subject.]
Are You Planning On Attending The Halloween Party
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Date: 2016-10-20 12:49 am (UTC)[He also didn't really know what to do at them. At least a sleep over was mostly about sleeping.]
As for waiting for the opportune moment, I'm not sure I would know when that is. Maybe instead of waiting for a moment when it might be most agreeable, creating a situation of the right mood would be a better plan. That's easier to do, and you just have to recreate scenarios, right?
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Date: 2016-10-21 02:54 am (UTC)[...okay the urge to meddle is overpowering the desire to not add another blatant pale gesture to the pile while he is still unaware. She is so weak to problems.]
I Can Assist In Creating This Hypothetical Scenario If You Will Allow Me To Do So
While I Am Not Experienced In The Art Of Wingmanship I Can At The Very Least Attempt To Provide Emotional Support/span>
[....And there goes another moment to add to the list of times she's accidentally pale flirted with him.]
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Date: 2016-10-21 03:40 am (UTC)And it's getting harder to be like that now.